While I wasn't raised in an environment which focused on courtesy as a way of life, I found out later on how much of a difference small actions can make - and how little things often speak volumes about others. Some of the most meaningful tokens of kindness have been shown to me in ways I would never have thought possible, but those were moments which taught me how one carries and conducts themselves can speak louder than any words. That's when I began noticing all the ways in which courteous behavior both enhances and improves our lives, and I became much more observant of how it made a difference even in the world of business.
Let's look at how this day is actually defined: "National Common Courtesy Day is a day to focus on showing kindness and consideration to others. It's about the little things in life, small ways in which we can brighten someone's day or make life a little easier for a fellow human. Showing common courtesy speaks volumes about a person's character, takes only a small amount of effort, sets an example for others, and makes one feel good about themselves." Source: Days of the Year
What role does courtesy play in your daily life? Do you make an effort to go out of your way to help or be kind to someone, or practice polite communication? I've found that when we treat people respectfully, they are so much more open and receptive to conversation and the exchange of ideas, and it feels as if a better standard of communication takes place when we use phrases such as "excuse me", "May I ask", or even simple expressions of gratitude.
Unfortunately, it seems the rise of social media has, in many ways, blurred the lines of polite conversation. We tend to fire off comments and opinions rapidly and without thinking, almost as if there are no feelings or real emotions involved, and I think that's one of the biggest drawbacks to online channels - the lack of seeing others as actual people. Waiting to post a comment or respond is always a helpful tool I find, as often there can be a better ways to express one's point of view. Would you agree?
Maybe today's holiday is a small reminder that we could all be a little "softer" in our replies; a tiny bit more thoughtful about how we act towards our fellow humans. It won't change the world, certainly, but it just might make for a more pleasant environment and lifestyle. 😊 I even have a Pinterest Board titled "Good News, Kindness & Courtesy" you can check out here.
I hope your Monday is a good one and wish you a terrific week ahead. Thanks for stopping by my blog!
Andrea
community advocate • marketing consultant • voice for small business
classic car lover • salt life • believer that "together we accomplish more"
classic car lover • salt life • believer that "together we accomplish more"
